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Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;Dust thou art, to dust returnest, Was not spoken of the soul.
-A Psalm of Life by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
How many of us have asked this question, how to be successful in life, or how many of you have been asked, are you successful in life?
To be true, there is no secret formula of success or not even a magic potion that you can just drink and achieve the heights of success overnight. Success is hard work, dedication, and commitment.
The point is that humans have the tendency to settle down and be comfortable. But isn’t it funny that we are the most comfortable when we are dead? Or let’s just put it this way; comfort will happen when they lower you in the grave. But success isn’t comfort.
Success is the profoundness of experience and the impact of our actions. See the point is if you had abundant time, this wouldn’t be a problem but creation gave you such a little time with so much potential as a human being. But if creation had made you a worm or a snail, you wouldn’t do much thinking about it. You wouldn’t climb a tree or swim an ocean because you never had this potential more than that you never had such aspirations. They have a purpose which they fulfill and die.
But alas! The creation of human beings came with so much potential and infinite possibilities. So it needs a certain level of striving for human beings to make it worthwhile while you are here. So ask yourself, do you want to be successful?
If the answer is yes, begin your success journey by asking yourself, what do you want in life or what is your life purpose?
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How many of us think the person next to us is successful, or the neighbour next door who has a Ferrari is successful? It’s easy to believe that the people around you have it all figured out. They are obtaining financial success and achieving what many people desire in life, such as marrying and having children, as well as being promoted. They “have it all together,” as they say.
They may appear to have it “all together” in certain circumstances, but many others are walking the road of life, feeling like a fraud, frightened of being discovered to despise their professions, be in loveless marriages, and feel trapped with no way out. You might agree with that statement, or you might be tired of walking through life unknowing that you’ve handed over the control of your life to someone else (or maybe you are aware and want it back)! Unfortunately, many of us will continue to “sleepwalk” through life until we experience a “wake-up” moment.
So, are you still sleepwalking? Or have you hit your “wake-up” moment? If you haven’t, it’s time you do. Ask yourself, what do you actually want in life to achieve the success you want? So now the question is what is success?Success is YOU. It is defined by you, not in a cliché sense that you dream it up and the whole world will conspire for you to get it. Success is not this dream, it is something that you define and nobody, not even your mentor or your coach will tell you what success is to you.
The shocking truth is that the majority of individuals throughout the world are waiting for a talent agent to spot them and then invest in them. But here’s the harsh reality: your success is in your own hands, not in the hands of some elusive talent hunter who may never arrive.Each of us is distinct, and achieving success in this manner implies something different to each of us. People aspire to be wealthy, famous, to excel in sports, to lead large corporations, to serve as great statesmen, to win a marathon race, to simply finish a marathon race, to write a book, to start and manage a lucrative small business, to provide food aid to starving people in a third-world country, or to scale the highest peaks.
It goes without saying that there are many different perspectives on what constitutes success. However, it is critical to understand and acknowledge what success means to YOU. It will make the process of learning how to be successful a lot easier for you.Success in the true sense is the progress towards your goal. It’s something that you actually love; not just the end product but also the process that took you there. Success is a MINDSET that you adopt in order to attain your objectives. And, like all other attitudes, it’s not something you abandon once you’ve achieved your objectives. Instead, you adopt it and keep it with you for the rest of your life. And, let’s be honest, success isn’t easy to achieve.
Many great people have fathomed the idea of success but after much contemplation, they have concluded that success gets you across many lines in your life. These lines are the barriers in our life that keep us astray. But for living a true life, your commitment towards success should not be weak. Here are a few steps to help you be successful and travel the path you want.
Step 1: Be very explicit about what you want to achieve.
Step 2: Create a strategy.
Step 3: Work on your strategy.
Step 4: Turn failure into feedback.
Step 5: Develop a belief system that empowers you.
Step 6: Values are the motivating factor behind all we do.
All of the limits highlighted by our justifications are just false illusions. The truth is that we all possess all we require for success. All we have to do now is figure out how to make the most of it. Here are a few tips given below to help you become successful in your career.
Understanding what you want to achieve in life is a crucial step towards success. It is critical to developing reasonable and attainable goals while setting them. It’s a surefire way to fail if you strive for perfection or set goals that are too lofty for you. Be aware of what you want and set your goals accordingly. Break your goals down into smaller, more precise goals after you’ve defined them so you can achieve them individually. It’s crucial to remember that success takes time.
Recognize the importance of hard work. Nothing worthwhile is usually presented to you on a silver platter, you usually have to work for it. Going the additional mile, or going above and beyond the call of duty, is sometimes what is required to achieve success. When someone goes the additional mile with no hidden intention, it demonstrates a strength of character. Many people are simply willing to do what is required to obtain their goals, yet this approach never leads to actual success.
Remember what Napoleon Hill once said, “You can start right where you stand and apply the habit of going the extra mile by rendering more service and better service than you are now being paid for.”
The growth attitude is predicated on the belief in change, and one of the most rewarding aspects of our job is seeing individuals progress. Nothing beats witnessing individuals find their way to the things they care about. We don’t always wish to change anything about ourselves. We simply want to be able to lose weight and keep it off. Alternatively, you may quit smoking. Alternatively, we can manage our rage.
Successful people know and understand the need for change. You simply can’t stand and wait for the apple to fall in your hands. You need to make efforts and be ready for the change that is bound to happen due to the effort.
Take command of your emotions, thoughts, and body. Successful people recognise that no one can make them feel or act a certain way, therefore they take responsibility for their feelings and actions and take action to change them. They have control over aspects of life that many “out of control” individuals lack. It is critical that you have complete control over your emotions and behaviours.
Take a mental break when you feel your control over your emotions slipping. In many circumstances, removing yourself from the scenario that is causing you to lose control of your emotions and body is a smart option; (i.e., leave the junk food aisle, politely excuse yourself from the presence of someone who is making you angry, etc.) If you can’t get out of the situation, take a deep breath. Do something to divert (or “interrupt”) your train of thought. Do whatever it takes to reclaim control of your emotions and body.
Successful people have an unquenchable desire to learn. You’ve probably heard the phrase “look before you leap.” This indicates that before action, you should consider the probable outcomes or consequences. Having the courage to act doesn’t mean you should do so without thinking about how or what the consequences will be. Successful people never stop, they keep learning and keep gaining knowledge.
Some of the ways to expand your knowledge: Read good books, attend seminars that will be beneficial to your personal development, surround yourself with people who are more successful than you and know more than you do. Remember, knowledge has long been recognised as an important factor in achieving success. “Knowledge is power,” as the saying goes. — Alexander William.
You know research has shown that only 8% of people are able to achieve the goals they set for themselves. So think of the unimaginable number of people who must be thinking right now, “I will do this, I will complete this.” But do we actually do it? The problem is that we very easily set goals for ourselves but when it comes to living up to them, we lose the game. Successful people are enthusiastic about what they do and have a great time doing it. That’s why they’re so good at what they do.
Do you suffer from heartburn on Sundays since you have to return to work the next day? If you’re in this position, you’re probably not giving it your all, and you’d be better off looking for work elsewhere. Consider that for a moment. Have you ever heard of a successful individual who despises his or her work? Sure, some people can make a lot of money doing what they despise, but they will eventually burn out and be unable to continue.
Successful people feel that achieving one’s objectives requires complete dedication. A powerful, relentless, tenacious purpose that destroys all bridges behind it, clears all impediments from its way, and gets at its goal, no matter how long it takes, no matter what the sacrifice or cost, has immense strength. To succeed, you must focus all of your mental capabilities on a single, unshakable goal and have a tenacity of purpose, which can mean death or victory. Every other desire that tempts you must be repressed.
Understanding the power of the mind is the first step towards positive thinking. Take command of your professional life. Never, ever, ever let your employer, coworkers, or anybody else drive your “career-ship.” You have the inner strength to resist harmful influences. This could stifle your career advancement. Nothing else is as beneficial as maintaining an upbeat, eager mindset, one that is continuously on the lookout for opportunities.
Some people are naturally magnetic, but some people aren’t. The reason is that they have certain qualities that others don’t possess that give them the ability to create an impression on others.
Whatever business you’re in, the quality of the impression you make on people will determine your reputation and success to a large extent. Using the law of attraction to establish a captivating, strong, and appealing personality means everything to young men and women. Cultivate the virtues of the heart. Personal magnetism has very little to do with intelligence and brainpower. People are drawn to and held by the likable, not the smart.
Not everyone who is successful is a leader. However, all successful people are good leaders. They are not only achievers in their own right, but they also encourage others to be achievers. They don’t just enjoy the benefits of their success; they also want to help others succeed.
Throughout history, it has been widely acknowledged that leaders are born, not made.
In most businesses, certain men and women progress up the ranks to become supervisors and managers. Is everyone on this list a “natural leader”? Not necessarily.
Give yourself a chance, do not worry, do not be stressed out, just teach your subconscious mind these two simple conditions: You must think that you can achieve your goals. You must have faith that it will occur.
In conclusion, remember, “You got a dream… You gotta protect it. People who can’t do somethin’ themselves, they wanna tell you, you can’t do it. If you want something go get it.” —Will Smith in The Pursuit of Happyness.
YOU are the key to your success. It is defined by you, not in the cliché sense that you imagine it and the rest of the world conspires to help you achieve it. Success is not a fantasy; it is something you define for yourself, and no one, not even your mentor or coach, can tell you what success means to you. The fundamental definition of success is progress toward a goal.
Some of the tips on how to be successful in your career are as follows:
Go the Extra Mile
Be Open to the Idea of Change
Have Control Over Your Emotions and Body
Not every successful person is a leader. All successful people, on the other hand, are good leaders. They are not only achievers in and of themselves, but they also inspire others to strive. They desire to assist others to achieve as well as enjoy the benefits of their success.
In order to achieve your goals, you must adopt a MINDSET of success. And, like all other attitudes, it’s not something you give up once your goals are reached. You adopt it instead and keep it for the rest of your life. Let’s face it: success isn’t simple to come by.
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